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Persistence is the most admirable quality in a person, hard to develop but once you develop in yourself you will be amazed by the power it has to change the course of your life. You may wish to get it but it doesn't come easy.
Have you ever looked at a movie and watched a hero and admired his/her quality of how brave they are and how they go through every problem in their life with poise and calm. Well, that's exactly what you can become too you might have seen people when they say something it just sends chills down your spine. People who are not like socially king/queens somehow they have got their life altogether even after all they went through. Well, that's persistence.
2. Have an unwavering focus:
Having an unwavering focus is very important, one day you feel like being like this another day you feel like something else well that does no work well. If you feel like doing something do it and it will open up. Just being focused on one thing without wavering and you will see nobody can deny you. Every day you keep changing your mind, changing your mind then you will go in circles.
A person who keeps changing directions obviously doesn't want to go anywhere isn't it.
As long as you are keep going, you will complete the journey. If you keep changing directions you will always feel lost.
3. Know you are capable:
No two minds are alike, no two persons are alike. But the capability inside us is the same all of us humans have the same capability. Nobody came in this world with a little bit more capability then you. Persistence cannot be fully grown inside you if you think you have lesser capability then your friends, neighbor, colleagues. Persistence will only take you as far as you want to go. If you want to go further than where you are then make a decision and then persistence will automatically happen.
4. Settling down:
We are all seeking a safe place. A small niche where we can settle down and sleep. Once you find a niche you find it too sweet and comfortable and you don't have the courage to step out and make the journey. Well if you are looking for a picnic and you find a picnic then it's ok. Have you realize that when you go in different situations of discomfort you begin to develop a new logic. In a certain moment of clarity, you think this is for my well being stick to it. If it looks like horror tomorrow stick to it. ( Don't get yourself in trouble okay!). If you just keep shifting nothing happens.
5. Carry others with you too.:
In life, you will find some people who need help and you've got the intelligence to help them then do it. Hold a hand and help someone go ahead. Teach a fellow student or a colleague what you know. Go out of your way to make a path for someone else. Some times you cannot open a door yourself and you need others to be that someone else for you. Persistence is not just about your own self it about doing for others too doing something which is larger than yourself.
The river cuts through the rock not because of its power but because of its persistance.
Have you ever looked at a movie and watched a hero and admired his/her quality of how brave they are and how they go through every problem in their life with poise and calm. Well, that's exactly what you can become too you might have seen people when they say something it just sends chills down your spine. People who are not like socially king/queens somehow they have got their life altogether even after all they went through. Well, that's persistence.
Life is lived as a whole, it really is not possible to just take one quality and make a life out of it. Persistence is a very coveted quality but there are some qualities you need to have in your self so that persistence will work in the right way for you. Love, kindness, empathy is very important in this life.
Persistence without these things alone cannot help you, even with persistence alone you'll feel like you're banging your head against a wall. Love is simply underserving, there's ain't no way someone could deserve it. If somebody's love comes with terms and conditions then it's just a contract. Love is the biggest motivational fuel you could have, a fuel with which anything can be accomplished.
But there's a catch here, a lot of times it ain't easy to love because it includes being good to people who are not good to you. Forgiving people when they don't deserve( by the way forgiveness is not deserved you just do it. It ain't easy that's why not many people can do it.) Making way for people when they are not even thankful to you for your work. That requires a lot of persistence. LOVE REQUIRE LOTS OF PERSISTENCE. Kindness in person is as valuable as Gold. Being kind is not easy going out of your way to help other people without expecting anything from them takes courage and doing that over and over again takes persistence.
Everything starts with steps and Persistance requires some too.
1. Have clarity with your thought:
Clarity is very important with persistence, your mind will tell you lots of stuff that is not important, once thing now another tomorrow. The way you make decisions is when you are happy when you are joyful. Because that's the time when you don't make decisions out of compulsion at that time when you feel like this is good for me then just do it. If out of compulsion(an irresistible urge to behave in a certain way) is what you are making your decisions out of you will always be in an endless cycle.2. Have an unwavering focus:
Having an unwavering focus is very important, one day you feel like being like this another day you feel like something else well that does no work well. If you feel like doing something do it and it will open up. Just being focused on one thing without wavering and you will see nobody can deny you. Every day you keep changing your mind, changing your mind then you will go in circles.
A person who keeps changing directions obviously doesn't want to go anywhere isn't it.
As long as you are keep going, you will complete the journey. If you keep changing directions you will always feel lost.
3. Know you are capable:
No two minds are alike, no two persons are alike. But the capability inside us is the same all of us humans have the same capability. Nobody came in this world with a little bit more capability then you. Persistence cannot be fully grown inside you if you think you have lesser capability then your friends, neighbor, colleagues. Persistence will only take you as far as you want to go. If you want to go further than where you are then make a decision and then persistence will automatically happen.
4. Settling down:
We are all seeking a safe place. A small niche where we can settle down and sleep. Once you find a niche you find it too sweet and comfortable and you don't have the courage to step out and make the journey. Well if you are looking for a picnic and you find a picnic then it's ok. Have you realize that when you go in different situations of discomfort you begin to develop a new logic. In a certain moment of clarity, you think this is for my well being stick to it. If it looks like horror tomorrow stick to it. ( Don't get yourself in trouble okay!). If you just keep shifting nothing happens.
5. Carry others with you too.:
In life, you will find some people who need help and you've got the intelligence to help them then do it. Hold a hand and help someone go ahead. Teach a fellow student or a colleague what you know. Go out of your way to make a path for someone else. Some times you cannot open a door yourself and you need others to be that someone else for you. Persistence is not just about your own self it about doing for others too doing something which is larger than yourself.
You will get all you want in life if you help enough other people get what they want - Zig ZiglarThanks for reading through. If you want to contact me you can mail me at phoenixblogs99@gmail.com. Your suggestions are always welcome.
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