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How
to become a better you?
Becoming a better person every day, striving toward a better future and making successful ventures is what we all want. Living life to the full and embracing every challenge is everybody's dream.
But the harsh reality is in this journey of life is we are faced with many difficulties that stop us in reaching to our full potential, sometimes it is our own mistakes that stop us from reaching our dreams
Today I am going to share some useful tips and some guides that I personally believe that will help you in becoming a better person.
Sometimes in order to be a better person, 'you have to get sick and tired of being sick and tired'. How many days and months will we spent our lives thinking man I could have read that book today that I was wanting to read for a long time or that morning walk that you've been planning to do from months. The most painful thing in life is the regret of procrastinating things, always postponing things for a later time and never finding the time to do it. There's no right time to live, do it right now or it'll never happen. Remember this:
I have gone through some crap in life too, I learnt a lot from it. Don't believe that lie your brain tries to tell you that, " You're the only who suffering this problem, nobody knows my hurt'. Don't feel alone in this, we've all been there we have all felt that haven't we, that's why you're reading this aren't you! But the thing to remember is that after you've gone through this or you are presently in one, is that ki people have gone through what you've gone through probably even worse and they are successful today.
You might think, "Ahh! It's so hard to be successful these days, I can't do it, then listen, The top place has always been empty and it always will, you don't believe me, start taking a step closer to you mountain and when you reach the top, you'll see nobody's there. It always lies vacant. "
In LIFE either you are going into a trial, you're already in or you are going out of one. But remember you'll never be leaving the same way you entered, you will always leave higher than you entered it. We live in a time where were are seeing people deep down in depression and stress, though they don't show, inwardly they are suffering. In an age where speaking foul words is seen as being cool and doing all kinds of wrong stuff signifies a person's superiority, children grow up thinking they have to meet certain requirements to be appreciated by their peers and their society and in turn they fall under depression and anxiety when their actions don't measure up.
Being a better person involves a lot of persistence and hard work, being a good person is not easy at all in the similar sense being a bad person is not easy too. You have to cross great length to become a better person, sometimes you might have to sacrifice some cool friends at school or your workplace if all they do is fill you with negativity and encourage you to slack off at your work. If your social company is the reason why your grades going down at school or spending time with them causing you to leave the career that you're passionate about then with all due respect, "please leave them", You don't have to cut them off just at once like breaking up, but you can slowly decrease the time you spent with them. But, "Hey, I can't do that if I do that I'll lose their approval, I won't be cool anymore" or "I'll have to eat lunch all alone by myself" so what! "WHAT IF YOU MISS YOUR DESTINY BECAUSE OF THEM".
Become the bigger person, when you see a person at your workplace who needs help with his/her work and nobody's helping them, then go share your knowledge and tech them. I remember I heard this quote once:
1. PRAISE YOURSELF: Fell motivated, tell yourself when your all alone your the most handsome boy/girl. Say to yourself I am the best at what if do, I will not be beaten by any adversity. Complementing yourself is very important because you'll hardly find people who will push you forward and tell you all the right stuff, so you have to do that for yourself. You see you cannot climb the ladder of success dressed in a costume of failure-Zig Ziglar.
2. SEEK MOTIVATION: Being motivated is very essential to whatever you do maybe it's studying a job. Human beings tend to lose focus after some interval of time, your mind tells you the top reasons not to study or continue what you're passionate about. I heard someone say, "People often say that motivation doesn't last. Well, neither does bathing - that's why we recommend it daily."
In this era of technology, we have audiobooks, youtube, podcasts listen to them.
But the harsh reality is in this journey of life is we are faced with many difficulties that stop us in reaching to our full potential, sometimes it is our own mistakes that stop us from reaching our dreams
Today I am going to share some useful tips and some guides that I personally believe that will help you in becoming a better person.
"Those who seek a better life must first become a better person"
JIM ROHN
Who is a better person?
A better person is someone who knows he/she has made mistakes in life and are willing to learn from them and move on with their lives. A better person always tries to purposefully look about the good things in people rather than their faults and flaws. Becoming a better person involves a discipline which you follow. Now it does not have to be on the same level as others. A normal average guy does not have the same level of discipline Jackie Chan has and that is also the reason why a normal average guy does not have the same level of success that Jackie Chan has. What do I mean that? I mean you have to start small like if you have the usual habit of leaving your clothes on the floor and the floor's never mopped, you have no idea where your things are then you can start by folding your clothes and making your bed when you get up every day, so when you are having a bad day and you reach home you'll find your bed always arranged your clothes organised and it will just thrill you I am sure. It's just this little thing they are so important to live.It's a definition of insanity to do the same things over and over again and expect different things to happen
Sometimes in order to be a better person, 'you have to get sick and tired of being sick and tired'. How many days and months will we spent our lives thinking man I could have read that book today that I was wanting to read for a long time or that morning walk that you've been planning to do from months. The most painful thing in life is the regret of procrastinating things, always postponing things for a later time and never finding the time to do it. There's no right time to live, do it right now or it'll never happen. Remember this:
"The pain of discipline weighs ounces but the pain of regret weighs tons"
I have gone through some crap in life too, I learnt a lot from it. Don't believe that lie your brain tries to tell you that, " You're the only who suffering this problem, nobody knows my hurt'. Don't feel alone in this, we've all been there we have all felt that haven't we, that's why you're reading this aren't you! But the thing to remember is that after you've gone through this or you are presently in one, is that ki people have gone through what you've gone through probably even worse and they are successful today.
You might think, "Ahh! It's so hard to be successful these days, I can't do it, then listen, The top place has always been empty and it always will, you don't believe me, start taking a step closer to you mountain and when you reach the top, you'll see nobody's there. It always lies vacant. "
In LIFE either you are going into a trial, you're already in or you are going out of one. But remember you'll never be leaving the same way you entered, you will always leave higher than you entered it. We live in a time where were are seeing people deep down in depression and stress, though they don't show, inwardly they are suffering. In an age where speaking foul words is seen as being cool and doing all kinds of wrong stuff signifies a person's superiority, children grow up thinking they have to meet certain requirements to be appreciated by their peers and their society and in turn they fall under depression and anxiety when their actions don't measure up.
Being a better person involves a lot of persistence and hard work, being a good person is not easy at all in the similar sense being a bad person is not easy too. You have to cross great length to become a better person, sometimes you might have to sacrifice some cool friends at school or your workplace if all they do is fill you with negativity and encourage you to slack off at your work. If your social company is the reason why your grades going down at school or spending time with them causing you to leave the career that you're passionate about then with all due respect, "please leave them", You don't have to cut them off just at once like breaking up, but you can slowly decrease the time you spent with them. But, "Hey, I can't do that if I do that I'll lose their approval, I won't be cool anymore" or "I'll have to eat lunch all alone by myself" so what! "WHAT IF YOU MISS YOUR DESTINY BECAUSE OF THEM".
Become the bigger person, when you see a person at your workplace who needs help with his/her work and nobody's helping them, then go share your knowledge and tech them. I remember I heard this quote once:
You can get everything in life you want if you will just help enough other people get what they want.
Zig ZiglarIf you're the type of person that always complains and finds all the right reasons to put others down, You're not doing good to anybody, remember nobody wants to be around a complainer and de-motivator, when the money runs out and they don't need you anymore, when you fail, then you'll see how things are in reality, you'll crave the same motivation from people from which you deprived them of all this time. HEY, I GOT GOOD NEWS FOR YOU, it not too late for a change. You have to understand this the law of nature is to change. If you feel like you want a clean slate and you want to become the best version of yourself and be successful then read along.
The TEN WAYS TO BECOME A BETTER PERSON.
1. PRAISE YOURSELF: Fell motivated, tell yourself when your all alone your the most handsome boy/girl. Say to yourself I am the best at what if do, I will not be beaten by any adversity. Complementing yourself is very important because you'll hardly find people who will push you forward and tell you all the right stuff, so you have to do that for yourself. You see you cannot climb the ladder of success dressed in a costume of failure-Zig Ziglar.
2. SEEK MOTIVATION: Being motivated is very essential to whatever you do maybe it's studying a job. Human beings tend to lose focus after some interval of time, your mind tells you the top reasons not to study or continue what you're passionate about. I heard someone say, "People often say that motivation doesn't last. Well, neither does bathing - that's why we recommend it daily."
In this era of technology, we have audiobooks, youtube, podcasts listen to them.
3. LET GO OF ANGER: Anger is engulfing fire your burn others and you'll burn out too. Anger in an adult shows signs of immaturity when we try to handle things about which we have no control over we normally get angry. While anger can be a normal emotion we express sometimes, but if left uncontrolled it can do more harm than good. Medical science researchers tell us that pent up anger can cause digestive problems and not being able to sleep properly, Remember when you're angry you won't be able to able to make wise decisions and it may affect your health too.
If you get angry a lot then you can write your feelings down in paper, pray or meditate. When you start seeing that life has its own way of controlling things and you don't need to react to every situation then you will be less angry.
One of the best ways to lose away anger is to absorb LOVE in you, start caring for yourself and others.
4. WAKE UP EARLY: I don't know if that qualifies as a benefit but I'll throw it anyway for you. Waking up early can do many benefits to you, It will rejuvenate your health and make you more youthful and conscious. For more refrence and benefits you can read my article.
5. BE HELPFUL: The most beautiful attribute that you can incorporate to your nature is being more helpful. Nothing feels better than being helped by someone in need. I realized that in life the more I help others the better I feel about myself and it motivates me to do some more. If you do something good for others then surely the favour will return to you in one form or another-"THATS KARMA". When people see the good nature in you then man hi man( 'In their hearts') they will admire you.
6. LISTEN TO OTHERS: Listening what others are saying is very important in building relationships, It shows that you value their opinion and you care about them. Jeet Banerjee says on Lifehack, "Listening to people and giving everyone a voice is one of the greatest things you can do." You might meet some people and find relationships that will last a lifetime and open doors for you which would have been otherwise closed. I have personally experienced this.
7. ALWAYS BE POLITE: Being polite might seem what a nice guy might do, people will tell you that if you be nice they will walk over you. Well, this is true and it has happened to me. But the reason why to continue to be polite is you don't be polite because other people are good to you or they tip you off but you do it for yourself. Always take the HIGHWAY in life, which means you treat people better than they treat you. The middle one is you treat people the same way they treat you. The LOWWAY in life is that you just treat people worst in every way.
8. PERSEVERANCE: Perseverance is very important in life, without it you won't be able to climb up higher. Push forward Hustle! The 21st century is a very competitive world. In order to succeed, you must be willing to come out of your comfort zone and start pursuing hard routes. It's often the hard routes we take in life that give us the best views in the End!
9. LIVE HEALTHY: I believe it was Jack ma who said once.
If you put bananas and money in front of monkeys, monkeys will choose bananas, because monkeys do not know that money can buy a lot of bananas. In reality, if you put money and health in front of people, people tend to choose money because too many people do not know that health can bring more money and happiness. – jack maI don't need to say much.
10. BURY DOWN YOU PRIDE: As the proverb goes: Before honour comes humility and before destruction comes pride. Pride can be very hard to detect in yourself. I mean if you have a group photo, whose face you look for first, You got it! We all have different levels of pride. If you think to high about yourself or too low about yourself doesn't matter which one, you are looking at yourself in both ways you'll always miss the lovely things life has to offer you. It's really difficult to handle this, but the first step is to recognize it then work on it. Try admitting your wrongs be open to change and most importantly find someone close or someone bigger than you to help you out in this.
The moment you come out you will begin to see this world with a wider and broader perspective.
Well, it was a long way, I'm glad you took your precious time to read through my work, I heartily appreciate your love, If you like it pls do comment down and don't forget to share this article with your friends and family if you find it helpful.
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